Stop Worrying and Start Living!

“The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one”

Fundamental facts one should know about worry, from Dale Carnegie’s bestseller, ‘How to Stop Worrying and Start Living’,

st_mell1. If you want to avoid worry, do what Sir William Osler did: Live in “day-tight compartments.” Don’t stew about the futures. Just live each day u ntil bedtime.

2. The next time Trouble — with a Capital T — backs you up in a corner, try the magic formula of Willis H. Carrier:

a. Ask yourself, “What is the worst that can possibly happen if I can’t solve my problem?
b. Prepare yourself mentally to accept the worst–if necessary.
c. Then calmly try to improve upon the worst–which you have already mentally agreed to accept.

3. Remind yourself of the exorbitant price you can pay for worry in terms of your health. “Those who do not know how to fight worry die young.”

 
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1.
On November 29th, 2007 at 1:41 pm, Saakshi O. Juneja said:

I so bloody needed to read this. :)

Thanks,
Sakshi

2.
On November 29th, 2007 at 2:33 pm, Kunal said:

I so agree with this… dont u think ppl in the west live their life each day at a time!

in india though its different :) not many of us live each day as it comes…

neways Congrrrats on your new blog !

3.
On November 29th, 2007 at 2:34 pm, Pensive Lawyer said:

Go for a run….works wonders!…:P

I used to do that…till i discovered the fine art of sleep. When you wake up….its too late to do anything!…hehehehe

4.
On November 29th, 2007 at 5:06 pm, Abdul Qabiz said:

There is no single rule that works for everyone.. Its said you can find happiness within yourself, but the finding process might differ..

It’s good to be logical and think of all possibilities… But sometimes it makes life boring, very predictable and less adventurous…

peace..

-abdul

5.
On November 30th, 2007 at 6:13 am, abhishek said:

wonderful!
Have you read wyane dyer also by chance?

nice blog.. i am sure our learnings will continue courtesy the second side of the author!

6.
On December 1st, 2007 at 6:32 am, Melody said:

@ Saks: :) You know, someone else called me up today & said “Thank you - your post was exactly what I needed to read today” - am so glad it’s already touching people.

@ Kunal: Well there are pros and cons in everything - except perhaps worrying!

And thx :)

@ Pensive: Why I am having a vision of you in your shorts running down Marine Drive? :P

@ Abdul: “There is no single rule that works for everyone” - well this blog is about spreading love & sunshine through inspiration. I know everything will not & cannot apply to everyone, but hopefully some of it will work for some.

@ Abhishek: My mum does :) And thank you, the second side of the author is suitable complimented!

7.
On December 1st, 2007 at 4:54 pm, Kevin said:

I love reading books by Dale Carnegie. ‘How to Stop Worrying and Start Living’ is one of my favorites. I was inspired from it and had written this.

8.
On December 2nd, 2007 at 2:30 pm, Shriram said:

#2 should solve most of our problems if only we take a moment to step back and think about it.

Nice start to this blog Melody :)

9.
On December 3rd, 2007 at 8:15 am, Melody said:

@ Kevin: Will check it out, thx!

@ Shriram: :) Glad you like it!

10.
On May 28th, 2008 at 7:35 pm, Jitendra said:

Live Simple Life and Be Happy for Ever.

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